3 Painful Mistakes I Used To Make That Cost Me My Desired Reality for Years
The trial and error that woke me up.
Knowing what not to do is just as important as knowing what to do—if not even more.
But first things first: your desired reality is simply your ability to collapse space and time as we know it and jump between different timelines of existence in all the infinite dimensions the Universe is hiding in its ungraspable magnificence and endlessness. You do that by transcending duality, transmuting energies, and becoming aware of multiple yous by letting them live in your heart. This is how you remember you are God.
It either seems to be stupid simple or unbelievably complicated.
I want to make it as easy as possible for you by helping you avoid some of the many, many mistakes I’ve made over the years since I embarked on this metaphysical journey.
Looking for signs that it’s “on its way” to me
I will never stop saying this—you can only have more of what you already have.
I used to be a go-get-it-type-a-gal instead of a become-it-right-now-divine-being. I waited for proof and signs all day long just to make sure I was doing it right. You know, those notorious signs from the universe every guru preaches about.
But little did I know, I was simply subconsciously reaffirming my forever-expecting state.
And that’s all I ever got—expecting. a.k.a. crickets from the universal mind. That realization was a game-changer because it took one small shift—from expecting and looking out for my desires to embodying them and making them a part, a simple addition, to my natural state of being. My identity changed when I stopped manifesting and started becoming.
I was the sign all along.
Not keeping my mouth shut
Being mysterious is the greatest attraction.
We all know how ticklish it is for the self-esteem when someone tells you you’re the shit. But not when it comes to shifting realities. This is between your old self, your new self, and God.
I know how tempting it is to get excited and want to share your new discoveries about the universe, but don’t do that with ‘elements’ in your physical reality—people, circumstances, events, objects. I don’t talk about this kind of stuff with my friends or family. It’s not dinner table material. Be mysterious, but not cocky.
Don’t run back to your ex telling them you now know why they behaved that way.
Don’t try to change your mother’s thinking.
Don’t share your journey on social media.
Don’t try to simplify other people’s experiences just because you now understand the bigger picture of reality.
They wouldn’t want to hear it and will do whatever they can to prove to you that their subconscious limiting programming is bigger and stronger than your newborn shifted perspective on life.
Do what you gotta do. Alone. With the Divine.
The most important one: not understanding what manifestation really is
What does manifestation really mean?
Is it pulling white rabbits out of a black hat? Or imagining something, opening your eyes, and seeing it in front of you? This is what manifestation is according to Google:
Well, no.
Manifestation means understanding that the real world is your inner world, and your ability to live there—instead of putting your awareness on the outside sensory world—is successful manifestation. It’s not experiencing it with your senses; it’s experiencing it with your consciousness. If you can adopt this way of thinking about manifestation, a whole new horizon of possibilities will be waiting for you.
This is what conscious creators do and understand better than everyone else.
This is what the top 1% of humanity does—manifesting on the inside, in itself, eliminates any waiting, expecting, questioning, and forcing. That’s when it takes form.
But you don’t quite care about it that much because you already lived it—in your heart.
And that’s the paradox of reality—you need to see inside the unseen first if you want full sensory experience in a world that comes from the unseen.
As always, keep creating.
P.S. I’m thinking of starting a series of newsletters with mistakes I used to make about reality creation. More mistakes from me mean fewer mistakes for you to make. 😉 Let me know your thoughts about it! 🌌💪
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Girl, PREACH! "Manifestation means understanding that the real world is your inner world, and your ability to live there": I am with you and have finally tapped into this power this year... all we have is within us and our infinite intelligence knows all things, we just have to be ready to listen and ENVISION!