You Can 100% Control People In Your Reality With Your Mind — You Are Already Doing It
No witchcraft. No spells. No affirming. Just consciousness.
“I am not what I think I am, and I am not what you think I am. I am what I think you think I am.”
―Charles Horton Cooley
You meet no one but yourself.
The partner who loves you with their whole heart? That’s you loving yourself. The boss who pays you to work for them? The customers you attract for your business? That’s you paying yourself. The ex who left you? That’s you leaving a version or an aspect of yourself.
People are just frequencies with labels and so are you. Don’t change the labels, change the frequency. Others are nothing more than a mirror to your self-concept.
If you can control yourself, you can control anybody in your life.
Everything and everyone in your reality is just you in a different form.
When I say control, I don’t mean magically manipulating people’s minds or actions through spells or techniques.
Controlling people means they simply reflect your self-concept if they are in your reality.
It doesn’t matter how you act or what masks you wear — it’s all about how you perceive yourself subconsciously.
People who know — truly know — they are the sh*t — they are either respectfully feared or deeply desired. People who’ve only known nothing but struggle, heartache, and betrayal — will continue to see more of the same patterns in their next relationships. People who are convinced their skills are valuable will see that reflected back in the form of abundance and freedom.
Whatever you experience — whether a condition, event, or person, is just your subconscious materialized — the automatic creator of your reality.
When you consciously decide to face your unconscious self-perception and shift it, you will see enormous changes in everything and everyone around you.
External happiness will always follow internal happiness. External abundance will always follow internal abundance. External love, strength, and respect will always follow your self-concept.
Your subconscious mind is the only way to become the conscious creator of your reality.
You never lose anybody — this is what actually happens.
You simply let go of a version of yourself with which someone resonated vibrationally.
Picture this.
Imagine yourself as the whole universe, the source, the biggest picture through which everything comes to life. Multiple timelines. Alternate realities and infinite experiences.
Every time this vast, infinite source of power — you — shifts and aligns with a different state of consciousness, you pick a very small piece of the puzzle and put it down gently. That small piece represents everything and everyone that no longer resonates with who you are becoming — circumstances, people, events, relationships, status, energies, etc.
In other words, everything you know that makes you, you.
But this doesn’t mean that the source — the universe — you — is in any way damaged, less whole, unworthy, or broken. Not at all.
Now you have the freedom to fill that space with whatever you like. You are the only one who has the right and the power to do it. “Better things are coming” suddenly takes on a whole new meaning.
You are forever whole and complete whether you want it or not.
How’s that for karma?
Don’t manifest people. Manifest yourself.
Don’t just watch the movie.
Focus on the projector — you.
It was really hard for me to face the fact that I’m responsible for my life down to the smallest details like certain words I was hearing around me, or the way people looked at me on the street. It was so precise that it freaked me out. The rabbit hole was far more infinite than I ever imagined but I dove right in.
This is what happens when you embrace the inevitable power you possess.
Imagine what becomes possible when you train yourself to normalize what once felt crazy to you.
People don’t matter. Don’t fight for them. Don’t rationalize their actions. Don’t convince yourself this is what’s meant to be. Don’t try to get them to see your worth before you do.
The rest will happen on autopilot.
The source of your reality is you. Nothing can ever happen in your life without your unconscious allowance. It doesn’t matter what you want — what matters is you focus on becoming a cozy home for your desired future. This also means doing some spring cleaning of your old versions and stories.
You can’t control others if you can’t control yourself, for they are you.
As always, keep creating.
OMG you even wrote an ebook. You wonderful, mystical ‘trapper-keeper’
Thanks
And it’s wonderful when you see you always have been able to do so