You’re a Victim to ‘If It’s Meant to Be’ - Stop Wasting Your Power on Superstition
Tough love Sunday
“If it’s meant to be, it’ll happen” has to be one of the saddest, most depressing, unnecessary, soul-sucking phrases in the history of the victim mindset.
You want to ruin your success before you even get there? Put all your trust, energy, creative power, and electrical thoughts into luck. You want to ruin your relationships? Believe that there is something written (or not) in the stars. You want to blame something for having a shitty day instead of going inward and remembering the truth of where your attention is? Blame Mercury in retrograde.
The last thing that will get you the life you want is blindly trusting that some higher power is making decisions for you.
If it happens, you’re lucky.
If it doesn’t, that’s fate.
No.
Nothing can or will ever happen to you that is outside of your awareness
Awareness is not mindfulness.
Being mindful throughout the day is about watching your thoughts while doing certain activities and kind of ‘be there’ in your daily life. And that’s cool and relaxing but it has nothing to do with bringing your desired reality to existence. Mindfulness is not divine – it just trains you to be more present in the moment from a human perspective.
Awareness, on the other hand, is all about bringing the unseen to the seen.
Making something ‘real’ from the infinite field of possibilities itself. Going back to the universal law that everything is consciousness: what you are aware of will always exist for you. If you’re not aware of it – it won’t. It doesn’t matter if it’s bad, good, fair, unfair, painful, confusing, or hurting – if it’s in your awareness, that means it’s in your state of consciousness.
If it’s your state of consciousness, that means it’s in your reality right now.
Don’t use approaches and techniques – use consciousness
On a deeper, unconscious level, you’re just trying to control your desires.
The whole idea of doing anything in our lives is the sense of control it gives us, and the result that follows. But doing more will not give you what you want. And be careful with people who keep preaching about hustling, working their ass off, and giving sweat and tears for their dreams. Nothing, and I mean nothing will ever happen to you if you don’t have the right state of consciousness for it. They may preach about the hard work they did, but there was a whole river of personal change they had to cross to align those actions with their aspirations, even if they place all the importance on hard work.
Even Alex Hormozi talks about how important it is to have the right belief system in place and how it was the missing piece for him years ago.
Fit people never stay fit for long if they’re energetically overweight.
Rich people never stay rich for long if they’re energetically poor.
Confident people never stay confident for long if they are energetically self-conscious.
Fix your state of consciousness, then get out there and make shit happen.
Be fucking unbelievable with your vision. The only relationship you should care about is the one you have with the Universe — because you are it. Not people.
Until it’s done, tell none.
Do you want it for you or to be impressive to others? If you can stick to one particular thing for weeks, months, or even years (love, success, inner peace, healing) without letting the world know your plans, you’d know exactly where your heart is, trust me. This is when you have only one companion on this journey and that is the Universe – it’s you vs your old versions, experiences, lessons, and limitations.
In other words, when you have no one around you to impose their own logical, limiting, boring excuses as to why you should not waste your time and just forever stay the way you are, because they don’t know how damn high you aim in life, you can then imagine the unimaginable, believe the unbelievable, think the unthinkable, and do the impossible.
Would you prefer a limited or unlimited best friend?
The greatest ever connection you can possibly nourish is the one you have with the universal infinite mind but not with blind trust.
Don’t count on it or wait for it to do something for you.
It will only and forever do for you what you do for yourself, but in a badass, space and time collapsing, breathtaking, jaw dropping, unlimited way.
As always, keep creating.🔥
If you enjoyed this piece, hit the subscribe button or share it with a friend. I’m always open to conversations, so feel free to reach out — I’d love to hear from you if you have any questions or just want to talk.
Every Sunday, I’m adding more insights and gems to my digital library on spiritual science and reality shifting. Stay tuned.🤍
Another great piece as always my friend!
It’s tough to love ourselves on a Sunday like this: but I will invent my way out of it