Why You Should Stay Away From People Who Love You If You Want Success And Abundance
They mean well, but they don’t have the same mindset as you
“When others tell you, ‘you can’t’, they actually fear that you can and are even more afraid that you will.”
― Cherie White
One in (almost) every family. And this time, it happens to be you—the one who wants to grow and develop, walk away from toxicity, have different and fulfilling experiences, and see the lovely and better side of life.
Money is great. It’s time to drop and forget about the old belief that having or even wanting to have and striving to be rich is something wicked, immature, and superficial.
It’s not just about survival and being extremely grateful for having ‘enough’ when you are… miserable.
It’s not God’s will, you are not being punished, it’s not faith, it’s just… a decision.
Make up your mind that you are ready for a new chapter of your life and are willing to do anything to upgrade yourself and the way you’ve been living so far.
And guess what? IT’S OKAY. This is exactly what you are meant to do in life.
Feel good feelings, have stuff, go places, whatever your perception of ‘living the life’ is.
You are not meant to meditate all day long in Tibetan caves and have something to eat once every 4 days.
And here comes the biggest obstacle: When do you know if you are on the right path to greater experiences, a richer lifestyle, and just happiness in general?
And are the people around you right or all they have is just an opinion?
I remember the first time I decided to try dropshipping a few years ago. I was so excited about this opportunity and the inspiration I felt back then about being my own boss. I wanted to share this with not just anyone but my very best friend.
Biggest mistake I’ve ever made.
He stood up, looked me straight in the eye, and said to me: “Are you crazy?! Do you have any idea how big of a competition that is? Everyone is doing it and you want to start from scratch? TRUST ME, let it go. I’m just trying to help you. You will only lose all your money.”
And then I replied with a question because I wanted to shut his mouth: “Okay, how do YOU know that? How many times have you tried this business model or any other and failed? What was your experience?”
I mean, if you don’t have ANY practical advice to give me as a beginner because you have walked the walk and have seen the bright or dark side of something — in this case a side hustle — let’s not overreact.
Reading, listening to the news, or just overhearing what your coworkers are discussing doesn’t mean you were there on the battlefield and lost or won the battle. It means you don’t have the experience but a hollow opinion.
And unfortunately, I’ve seen this numerous times in my life from people who are supposed to support my decisions for growth.
The bottom line is that they don’t have any idea what you are capable of, especially if you make up your mind to do something.
There are two options when this happens: either they will follow you and you will have a blast and long-lasting relationships with them, or they will fall off, you will move on and they will be stuck in their normal but secure day-to-day life.
Misery loves company. Don’t do that.
Create your happiness and follow your dreams because sooner or later we all succeed.
Spread some love today,
U.A.