The Art of Not Fighting to Keep Anything That Naturally Falls Away as You Evolve Into Someone New
The power of non-action.
"Fight for what belongs to you."
"Don't give up on your desires."
"No one touches what's mine."
"Don't let go."
If you’re ready to attend the funeral of the old you, none of that should make sense anymore.
Anything and anyone that doesn't resonate with your new self or even align with your transition is a dead flower. And you don't water dead flowers. However, people cannot see the win within the loss.
That's because people lack the ability to see anything beyond the visible, a.k.a. the bigger picture. Believing everything happens for a reason keeps you passive. Knowing you are the reason puts you in control.
If you are ready for a new chapter or a whole new life, be willing not to look back.
It's the only way to make that chapter worth the sacrifice.
The hard choice between the old and the new, the human illusion of owning anything, and the beauty of losing it all
It's impossible to keep your old life and build a new one at the same time.
Every loss you encounter is a simple rearrangement that responds to your internal shift. You never truly lose anything or anyone. And if you stay open-minded and keep creating long enough to see the final results without reacting to what appears to be negative, you'll realize you control every scenario with your state of being.
Don't let your ego take over your unlimited creative power just because it's supposed to keep what's familiar to you alive - even if it doesn't serve you anymore.
If the thought of owning nothing doesn't bring you a feeling of liberation and peace, it's time for some self-reflection.
You will never be truly free if you don't understand that you don't even own your name. And our silly, human, charismatic nature is all about proving ourselves and becoming somebody - no wonder it's always so painful, confusing, and exhausting when life takes all of that away from us one way or another. It's nothing personal - you can't create and destroy at the same time.
Focus on creating and let life take care of the rest.
Nothing is destroyed and gone unless you are ready to drop it - a harsh truth
We've all experienced it.
When everything goes right, something always happens that messes up our emotional state and brings us to the starting point. The Universe is not punishing us. We are not doing anything wrong.
Creation is always in motion. Your perceptions of right or wrong keep you from understanding the essence of change.
You get fired.
Your partner dumps you.
You lose your home.
You get a divorce.
You receive a life-threatening diagnosis.
Your friends leave you.
And you react. You engage. You make it real.
It sucks.
But not if you know it is happening for your highest good. The in-between is the least important, but as long as we put it on a pedestal, we'll never see what's waiting for us on the other side. Don't be fooled by the outer world; nothing you see is a final result.
Every ending is just a bridge to the next stage of your life.
Endings don’t exist. Your emotional attachment gives them power—but they were never real to begin with.
The art of watching it all go to hell with an open heart
If you are serious about changing your frequency, brace yourself.
Your whole life is about to be turned upside down.
It's the most significant indicator that you are doing the work and are ready to build something new. Your relationships will break. Don’t try to save them just because they once felt familiar. They don't resonate with your new state of being, so the more you fight for someone, the more you're blocking your own creation.
Your only job is to focus on shifting your inner world.
Don't try to control the how—you will never be able to do it anyway. That's the power of realizing you are nobody, owning nothing. Some may find this offensive or silly. Others will take the immense opportunity to be everyone and make room for everything they want to experience.
Let it burn.
A phoenix only rises after it burns first.
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Omg😉Day by day I fall in love with your writing.♥️😍
Loved your writing Nyssa. I'm a new writer on Substack and would be happy to connect with you.
Also, I'm curious, were you part of Ship 30?