In Just 3 Minutes I Will Forever Change How You Think Of Loss and Heartbreak When You Start Creating Your Desired Future
What really happens?
One of the most powerful things you can do is creating something new while keeping your heart open to leave people in the past.
If you don’t know how to do that, you will forever doubt your self-worth, the world, your destiny—and will always have a false understanding of what love truly is. It’s not relationships, it’s not parenting, and it’s not friendships. Those are just results.
It’s the universal power to create, attract, generate, shift, and remember.
There are no people—there are only energies, frequencies, and states of being
The game of reality is really tricky.
And why wouldn’t it be, since everything we experience in our three-dimensional realm feels so fucking real. Is it, though? Nothing will ever make you repeat old patterns and stories as much as the people in your life. It doesn’t matter if it’s trauma from your parents, betrayal from your partner, college buddies, or whatever the hell.
But one thing you need to understand about people:
There are no people. Humans are just organisms with limited, fixed, and unconscious ideas about their environment. And it’s so easy for us to focus on that being true instead of looking at the bigger picture and what people really ‘are’.
When you say what someone did to you, you use their name and immediately connect it to their identity:
“Bob was mean to me, he’s such an asshole.”
“Steven cheated on me, he’s a jerk and deserves to die.”
“Sarah is such a bitch, she loves making people suffer.”
Or whatever weird things you witness in your daily life.
You don’t say, “Well, this particular consciousness beyond space and time was in the frequency of being a jerk, asshole, bitch, and their actions by default resulted in me being affected by those actions.”
Insane, right?
Nobody talks like that. And 98% of the time, people don’t look at the world this way. But once you see it, you can’t unsee it. It’s the price of being free, looking outside the matrix, and unlocking your true potential as the creator of your life.
Once you start seeing the world through the lens of frequency, you stop taking everything so personally.
I’d pay that price any day.
The Universe has its own way of making your desires materialize—why would you argue or blame it?
If you want it, you can have it.
If you imagine it, then it’s possible for you.
If it’s in your mind, then it’s in the universal mind.
One of the toughest realizations and experiences in my life was coming to the understanding that I control only the what and the why. The how is not up to me. It’s up to my higher self and the Universe.
I thought everything was supposed to go smoothly when it came to creation, manifesting, and becoming a new version of yourself. You can create the job of your dreams while still working your current job, and this way you will not be without money. You can meet the true love of your life while being in your current relationship and this way you won’t deal with loneliness.
But when you consciously start to create your future and break the patterns, get ready—because this ride is about to get bumpy and unexpected. You will lose people, and they will lose you. It will feel like the whole world is against you, and you won’t know why.
It won’t make any sense since you are creating happiness, fulfillment, abundance, love—and the Universe meets you with struggle, heartache, and loss. What the hell, Universe? And you stop. You give up creating because it keeps getting worse.
This is where you should put your foot on the gas of change. Some call it tests and challenges; others call it spring cleaning for your whole life.
But one thing is for sure: you can’t have old and new at the same time, so make some room for the new if you really want it.
Don’t fix an old story if you want a new experience
I recently came across YouTubers who teach “simply deciding” on your wishes and how to assume new identities of people in your reality—and therefore control how they act, behave, treat, and feel about you.
The majority of people watching wanted to know how to choose a new identity for their ex or crush and therefore be in a loving relationship with them. I get it—it would feel incredible to be noticed or get an explanation from someone who ghosted you or broke your heart, and live happily ever after. But that’s not how divine creation works.
If most people made the difference between creating from the ego and creating from unconditional surprise and awe of the unexpected, they would be free.
Fixing or changing an old story is the most limiting investment you can give your energy and attention to. Yes, sometimes people come back—and yes, they are a completely different person. They’re almost unrecognizable, and you meet them for the first time. But that is when you and they both have been on your separate journeys to change and growth.
You vibrationally match—and sooner or later, one way or another, you will end up being in each other's lives again as different people. You don’t get to decide who someone is. You get to decide who you are.
The magic of creating yourself is in being guided by the unknown.
The Universe has way more infinite ways to give you what you want than you.
As always, keep creating. ❤️
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