Does The Process Even Know That You’re Trusting It?
Or is it a one-way street?
It’s a good thing if you don’t like what you're about to read.
I didn't fancy the idea myself at first. The epiphany hit me like a brick in the head. But if there’s something I’ve learned in this life (I hope so), it’s that the biggest changes come from extraordinary realizations born from the simplest explanations. See? Simple.
But it’s not so easy when you're trying to understand everything all at once or just feel slightly better about whatever you’re going through.
People have come up with something called trusting the process, and it was an idea I lived by for a very long time. Even though I had no f*cking clue what it actually meant.
Stop hoping for the best when you’re in full control
Talking about God, the Universe, religion, or ancient knowledge forgotten long ago isn’t dinner party material.
If I hit a nerve, well, we’re not at a dinner party.
People always have a choice even if they don’t see it. You can always choose what to believe, what to focus on, what labels to use, what to feel, how to think, what to work on, what and who to leave behind, and who to become today, tomorrow, and next year. I guess the duality principle has a rewarding aspect — if used consciously and understood properly.
But choosing means facing your unconscious programs and deciding to go for something different.
Something bigger.
This excludes handing over your vast power as the creator of your life to people, external factors, circumstances, events, relationships, or that silly voice in your head that keeps calling you funny names. The only thing that would make sense after such an emotional fiesta is trusting the process, hoping for the best, or simply waiting for the grand revelation of why you had to go through something.
Unfortunately, many disguise this relationship with the Universe as trust, when it’s all about being scared, on the verge of giving up, or not understanding how life works.
That’s not trust. It’s an escape and postponing what you need to face now.
The possibility of you messing up your life comes from giving in to external factors and fancy labels you don’t quite understand
If I told you that every single time you react, you keep recreating more of the same, would you stop?
Can you respond internally to something different — before you see, hear, smell, touch, and experience it?
This doesn’t mean that every time you visualize and feel the emotions of having $1,000,000 in your bank account, you’ll open your eyes, and voila!
No — it took you days, months, and maybe years to create a certain condition or circumstance in your life. What do you think it’s going to take to create something new and break a pattern?
Hint: Probably the same amount of time and energy, if not even more.
But you will never be able to escape these programs, make the necessary sacrifices, and maintain a state of being that resonates with your future for so long until it takes form, unless you stop believing something outside of you has the last word. Until you realize that everything happens for your benefit, and you don’t give up when the first, second, or even hundredth setback comes along, you will get where you want to be.
But you need to remember two things:
You must have a clear, strong, and unapologetic vision for your future.
You have to remember that everything in the meantime is leading you to that future. Outside our physical realm, duality is not real, so reacting to good and bad will only keep you stuck in a loop.
It’s like yelling at your pet for breaking your favorite vase — they don’t realize what you’re so angry about because they just moved it out of the way for you.
Remember — no right and wrong, no good and bad, no punishment — only readjustments, and cleaning the way.
How to make sure life will toss you around until you die
I grew up around religious people.
It wasn’t bad and I wasn’t raised with a firm hand. But there was something that felt quite wrong and that was using “God knows best” as an excuse for not changing who you are, or even trying. You know, the bare minimum.
Believing in something greater than yourself is beautiful.
But here’s the thing. God needs you to cooperate. God’s work is about 10%. The other 90% is about you vs. you. This means you lead more than you even cooperate with the impersonal consciousness that created life.
You don’t get what you deserve. You get what you are.
Sick people don’t deserve health.
Poor people don’t deserve wealth.
Homeless people don’t deserve a home.
Lonely people don’t deserve love.
No one can give you anything until you believe you are worthy of receiving it. This is why you need to have full control over yourself when it comes to creating your life. Creation is eternal, and nothing is final.
Don’t sit with your legs crossed, religiously worshipping unconditional trust, hoping for the best, and waiting for answers. Give the Universe a design, and work towards it on three levels:
1. Mentally
2. Spiritually
3. Physically
That’s how you prove yourself to be worthy.
And you only get what you believe you are worthy of receiving.
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I Love that perspective!
Nyssa, you articulate reality with such clarity and power that it can awaken the sleeping gods within us. As humans, we hold 90% of the control in our hands, but it will only manifest if we consciously design our lives—physically, mentally, and spiritually.